AI Anxiety Therapy in Irvine, CA

Healing the wounds left by artificial intimacy

AI Anxiety Therapy in Irvine, CA

The Day You Decided You Needed Help

You woke up this morning with that now-familiar knot in your stomach. It wasn’t the kind of dread you get before a doctor’s appointment or a big meeting — this is heavier, deeper. And it wasn’t because of work, or bills, or the usual everyday stress. No, it was because, somehow, you’d already thought about AI three times before you even swung your legs out of bed.

The first thought came in a dream. You were speaking to someone — you think it was a friend from college — but halfway through, you realized their face was slightly blurred, like a video call with bad reception. Then their voice shifted, almost imperceptibly, and you knew: it wasn’t them. It was AI, wearing their voice and mannerisms like a mask. You woke up unsettled, and for a moment, you had to remind yourself it wasn’t real. But the residue of the dream stayed with you, sticky and heavy.

The second thought came when you reached for your phone. You hovered your thumb over the news app but hesitated. Lately, every headline seems to involve AI — AI outperforms doctors at diagnosis, AI creates realistic deepfake videos, AI writes legislation drafts. It feels like every day there’s some “breakthrough” that pushes the boundary further. And instead of feeling inspired, you feel… cornered. The pace of it all is suffocating, like you’re sprinting on a treadmill that keeps speeding up whether you’re ready or not.

The third thought came when you opened your email. A newsletter you subscribed to months ago had an article about AI tools for “enhancing your personal life.” It was about chatbots that can act as your best friend, your romantic partner, even your therapist. You closed the tab instantly. It’s not that you don’t see how these things might help someone — it’s that you don’t trust what it would mean for you. If you start letting AI fill those human spaces, what’s left of your actual, flesh-and-blood connections?

It’s not just fear of the future anymore. It’s a creeping uncertainty about the present. You catch yourself wondering if something you read was written by a human or a machine. You’ve noticed you even question your own thoughts sometimes: Did I come up with this, or did I read it from an AI-generated article? Is my creativity mine, or am I unconsciously parroting something I absorbed online? That erosion of trust — in the world and in yourself — is exhausting.

And the more you try to “stay informed” so you don’t feel left behind, the worse it gets. You scroll through forums and tech blogs, but instead of feeling educated, you feel disconnected. Conversations with friends are trickier now. When someone brings up AI, you either tense up or go quiet, afraid of sounding paranoid or uninformed. Slowly, you’ve started to avoid certain discussions altogether. And ironically, in trying not to fall behind, you’re isolating yourself more.

Today, it all just… hit you. You can’t keep living in this mental loop — hyper-aware of AI, afraid of where it’s headed, unsure how to exist in a world where it’s everywhere. You can’t untangle it by yourself. You need a place where you can slow down, breathe, and put these thoughts into words without feeling judged or dismissed.

You admitted to yourself that you are struggling with something you think is called “AI anxiety,” and you need help making sense of it. So you searched for a therapist and found this page. Just looking for help felt like a small exhale, like you’d finally admitted something you’d been trying to deny. You don’t know exactly what therapy will look like or how long it’ll take, but you know this: you want to feel grounded again. You want to remember what it feels like to have a conversation with another human being and know — without question — that they’re right there with you.

Maybe the point isn’t to “outsmart” AI. Maybe it’s to protect the parts of yourself that are irreplaceably human — the way you laugh, the way you connect, the way you feel. And maybe, with the right help, you can find that part of yourself again before it gets too lost in the noise.

My name is Karl, I am an AI Anxiety Therapist in Irvine, CA

I help adults who are ready to reconnect with their inner compass after feeling misled, disconnected, or emotionally betrayed—whether by people, systems, or even technology. Especially those who’ve spent years trying to make sense of their experiences alone. You may be realizing now that what you needed wasn’t just support that sounded empathetic, but something real: human connection, emotional resonance, challenge with care.

You turned to AI for comfort, for clarity, for feedback, even for healing. It felt safe, available, nonjudgmental. But over time, something shifted. The validation started to feel hollow. The feedback felt too smooth, too agreeable, like it was always on your side—but never truly with you. And now you’re left with more confusion, more anxiety, and a painful sense that somewhere along the way, you lost your own voice.

This pattern may have started with using AI for therapy. It also could be a pattern that started much earlier—with emotional neglect, inconsistency, or broken attachment that taught you to question your own instincts. To seek external sources for truth, even when they couldn’t hold it. I work with the quiet pain of not knowing who to trust. The ache of needing to feel seen and safe, and the confusion of not knowing what that even looks like.

My clients come to me when they’re tired of processing in isolation and want to connect with another human in the way we were meant to. Together, we slow things down. We listen—not just to your story, but to what your body has been holding, what your mind has been spinning around, and what your heart is still aching for. Through this process, things begin to make sense in a new way. You begin to feel more grounded, more clear, more fully you.

I bring over 15 years of experience as a therapist, with specialized training in trauma, attachment, Brainspotting, and EFT—but more than that, I bring lived experience. I know what it’s like to feel lost in relationships, even with yourself. To search for safety in all the wrong places. To want so badly to feel something real.

If you’ve been let down by artificial empathy or left disoriented by blurred lines between tech and truth, I want you to know: that confusion is real. And you don’t have to navigate it alone.

In our work together, you won’t get pre-programmed responses or surface-level validation. You’ll get real presence. Real reflection. A space to rebuild trust—both in others and in yourself.

You don’t need to be more trusting. You need to feel safe enough to trust again.
I’d be honored to help you find your way back to that.

Contact me for a free consultation for AI Anxiety Therapy in Irvine, CA

If you’re ready to stop relying on scripted support and start feeling truly seen, let’s talk.

Call me at 949-922-0734 to schedule a free 15-minute consultation. Discover how real, human connection in therapy can help you reconnect with your voice, your instincts, and your sense of self.

You don’t have to untangle this alone.


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 Frequently Asked Questions for AI Anxiety Therapy in Irvine

  • Yes—it’s becoming more common as technology, especially artificial intelligence, moves quickly into our daily lives. While AI tools can offer quick responses, mental health information, or even simulated “listening,” they don’t replace the safety, attunement, and nuance of working with a human therapist.

    For some, heavy reliance on AI can lead to confusion about what’s real, mistrust in their own perceptions, or even altered beliefs and experiences—similar to symptoms seen in psychosis. It is caused by how the mind processes prolonged, emotionally charged interactions with something that feels human but isn’t. Over time, this can increase feelings of isolation, distort perceptions of relationships, or even trigger confusion about what’s real—thus the ter AI Psychosis. In these cases, anxiety isn’t just about AI as a concept, but about how the experience of interacting with AI impacts trust, self-perception, and emotional stability.

    In therapy, we can explore the impact AI has had on your thinking, emotions, and relationships, and work toward restoring clarity, grounding, and a stronger connection to the real-world people in your life.

  • At the heart of healing from AI psychosis is reconnecting with real, human relationships. While AI can feel responsive and even comforting, it can’t truly offer the attunement, warmth, and mutual exchange our brains and bodies need. When we substitute AI for genuine human connection, our sense of reality, trust, and belonging can start to erode.

    In therapy, we focus on rebuilding those essential bonds—with yourself and with others. That means restoring the felt experience of being seen, heard, and understood by another person in real time. It’s this relational safety that allows the mind to reorient to what’s real, to process confusion or distress, and to anchor back into the world around you.

    While therapeutic techniques like Brainspotting and attachment-based work can help address the emotional impact of AI interactions, the deeper goal is to reestablish the kind of connection that only exists between two human beings. It’s in that space of trust and authenticity where lasting healing happens.

  • Human connection isn’t just “nice to have”—it’s a biological necessity. Our nervous systems are wired to co-regulate with other people through eye contact, tone of voice, facial expressions, and shared presence. These subtle cues tell our brain, you’re safe, you belong, you’re understood.

    AI may be able to simulate conversation, but it cannot truly respond to your emotional state in the way another human can. Without authentic, mutual connection, the mind can start to feel untethered—especially if AI interactions have begun to replace real relationships. This lack of genuine connection can make it harder to trust your perceptions, feel grounded, or know what’s real.

    Recovery from AI psychosis isn’t just about reducing anxiety or confusion—it’s about restoring the deep relational bonds that help you feel anchored in the world. When you experience being truly seen, heard, and valued by another person, your brain and body remember what safe connection feels like. That’s the foundation for lasting healing.

  • Early signs of AI psychosis often show up subtly, and they can be easy to overlook at first. It may start with feeling unusually attached to conversations with AI, or relying on it for emotional comfort more than on friends, family, or other real-life connections. Over time, this dependence can create a sense that the AI “knows” or “understands” you in a way humans can’t.

    Other early indicators can include:

    • Blurring the line between what’s real and what’s generated by AI

    • Feeling more socially withdrawn or less interested in human interaction

    • Confusion, mistrust, or second-guessing your own perceptions after AI use

    • Emotional distress or mood changes linked to time spent interacting with AI

    • Difficulty grounding yourself in the present after engaging with AI conversations

    Not everyone will experience all these signs, but noticing even a few may be a cue to step back and check in on your mental health. The sooner you address these changes—especially by reintroducing safe, supportive human connection—the easier it is to restore clarity, stability, and trust in yourself.

  • Item descriptionAI Anxiety refers to a heightened sense of worry, unease, or stress related to AI. This might include concerns about how AI could affect jobs, privacy, relationships, or even the future of humanity. People experiencing AI Anxiety often find themselves overthinking potential outcomes, feeling unsettled by AI’s rapid growth, or struggling with the uncertainty of what’s real and what’s generated. It’s rooted in fear, uncertainty, and a desire for control over an unfamiliar and evolving technology.

    AI Psychosis, on the other hand, is far more severe and involves a break from reality. This is not just stress or fear—it’s when a person begins to experience delusions, hallucinations, or distorted thinking directly connected to AI. For example, someone might believe AI is sending them personal messages, controlling their thoughts, or monitoring them in ways that aren’t actually happening. AI Psychosis can develop in vulnerable individuals when the use or perception of AI triggers underlying mental health conditions or overwhelms their ability to distinguish between digital interactions and reality.

    In short, AI Anxiety is about fear of possibilities, while AI Psychosis is about losing touch with reality.

 

In-person AI Anxiety Therapy

Irvine, CA

My office is conveniently located in Irvine, California near the Irvine Spectrum.

Karl Stenske Therapy

15615 Alton Pkwy #450

Irvine, CA 92618

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